What is more difficult, trusting someone or loving someone ?
What is more easier, trusting someone or loving someone ?
I am sure you will be having a different opinion than me. I believe more in trust than in love. I feel trust is difficult to establish and maintain, than love is. And hence trust is more valuable than love. Love involves so much other parameters like physical attraction, infactuation, loneliness and ones need to have someone close to share ones feelings. While trust stands on entirely different platform. Trust doesnt need all the above parameters, trust can't be established in one day or two. Trust is bonding between two people who understand each other. Trust is believing in someone else more than yoursef. It takes years to trust someone and to earn someone's trust. Maybe love can be seen as a subset of trust. If you trust someone, implicitely means you love that person. All of us trust our parents and its implicit that we love them as well.
Trust is something which makes you feel safe while love makes you feel insecure. Trust is harder to earn while love isn't. Trust is way of living while love is way of enjoying life.
Maybe you don't agree with my thoughts at all. :)
3 comments:
Can't trust and love go hand in hand? As in i dont find them mutually exclusive. I agree trust is more important when hard times come up but who can deny the the warmth, comfort and pampering which are a part of love?
-S
We all have to have something to believe in. And that's never more true than when we have lost our faith in love.
Love is beyond any comparison ,so stop comparing it;)
@anonymous and @diptee :
I think i should fall in love with someone.. :)
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