A small story :
A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat
field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back
to pick."
The student went to the field, go through first row, he saw one big wheat,
but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger
one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he starts to
realise that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he
knew he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand. The teacher
told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for better ones, but
when later you realise, you have already missed the person.
Now, I wonder, how does this fiction applicable to us in real life?
At least whatever little experience i have i can tell that, you make a move when you feel that you found a right person.
For girls, the goal is simple, they want a guy who can take care of them properly and give them a lot of attention. He should be caring, loving, adorable and should earn well.
Guys, on the other hand, have fewer but tricky requirements. They want good looking, smart, with highest understanding quotient, caring, loving and obey his orders kind of girl.
Hence finding love is not so simple. Most difficult is finding the right person, who gives as much love to you, as you give it him/her.
Friendly Advice : Don't judge a book by its cover. Take some time and then judge the person.
Comments Welcome.
3 comments:
I totally disagree with you as usual. First critique for the story. I believe, unlike the wheat field, you can come back to love if you realise at a later point of time. Example will be all those who get married with school crushes.
Secondly, you cannot make such a nineteenth century comment about girls. I believe that girls don't and even if they do, should not look for money and security in guys. Neither should guys be looking into intelligence and/or beauty.
It should be a matter of understanding. Both can earn, both can talk gibberish. It's the chemistry that has to click. When you love a person, there can hardly be any concrete reason for loving that person. You love her because of the way she is and its very unique.
ur judgement is based on ur omfort level and not monetary security or intelligence.
no judgement by cover? at all? :)
@Sandi : thnx a lot. We need to discuss so many things. :)
@dog : man, i know what you mean. :) Cover is appreciated by everyone but the chapters are appreciated by the devoted reader. :)
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